General exchange Dear Creator letter
May. 10th, 2024 10:02 amHello! Thank you for considering creating something for me. Hopefully this will help you be confident in making something I'd enjoy.
I have some fandom-specific thoughts for the following:
Grishaverse
The Locked Tomb
Legend of Zelda
====LIKES====
General Likes
canon compliance | canon divergence | worldbuilding | plot/intrigue | romance/smut | fluff/humor | friendships/banter (including in romantic pairings!) | competence | battle couples | time fuckery | unreliable narrators | competent/confident women | arranged/accidental/fake marriage | mutual pining | cliche tropes | friends to lovers | enemies to lovers | bisexuality | belligerent sexual tension | getting together | established couples | messy emotions | codependency | devotion
In general, I love female characters being treated like real complex people, and I love when couples keep their dynamic and their edges even after getting together! I tend to like my characters on the emotionally constipated or hiding-behind-humor end, who show their feelings in the way they act, rather than via gushing declarations of love and devotion.
NSFW Likes
all kinds of vibes for sex (casual, romantic/emotional, passionate/enthusiastic, comfort sex, hatesex) | realistic/imperfect sex | frottage | hand jobs | piv | oral | 69ing | deepthroating | anal | pegging | rimming | edging | over stimulation | breath play | temperature/wax play | restraint | impact play | cock warming | waking someone up with sex | voyeurism | exhibitionism | public/semi-public sex | clothed/semi-clothed sex | having to be quiet | FFM and FMM threesomes | blood kink | menstrual kink | lactation kink | pregnant sex
Common dnws that I don't mind
infidelity | age or power gaps | underage (16/17yo) | incest/pseudo-incest | dubious consent* | monsterfucking/shapeshifter bestiality | female characters receiving anal | (m)pregnancy | parenthood | omegaverse (more details)
*e.g. drunk/high sex, sex pollen/Something Made Them Do It, coercion/manipulation/grooming, identity issues, somnophilia not discussed beforehand, etc
====DNWS====
General DNWs
whump/sickfic | major character death | modern/no powers AUs | D/s or slavery AUs | unrequested identity headcanons or changes to character race/sex/body type | soapboxing of real-world issues | tradwife vibes
NSFW DNWs
rape/non-con | guro/vore/snuff | underage <16yo | ageplay/age regression | daddy/mommy kink | DDlg | gender-specific degrading dirty talk / 'mean man' vibes | inflation/bulging | cervix fucking | unrealistically large dicks | stuffing/feeding | piss/scat/vomit | squirting | spitting | structured BDSM*
* pre-arranged safewords, traffic light systems, formalised roles/titles, etc. Characters doing bdsm type play organically/stumbling into a dynamic as they go is fine, I just don't want it to look like they've read a modern bdsm manual if they're not in the modern real world.
Note that anything listed as a DNW here may be superseded by an explicit request for it in a particular exchange! There are some things I like only in very specific contexts.
I have some fandom-specific thoughts for the following:
Grishaverse
The Locked Tomb
Legend of Zelda
====LIKES====
General Likes
canon compliance | canon divergence | worldbuilding | plot/intrigue | romance/smut | fluff/humor | friendships/banter (including in romantic pairings!) | competence | battle couples | time fuckery | unreliable narrators | competent/confident women | arranged/accidental/fake marriage | mutual pining | cliche tropes | friends to lovers | enemies to lovers | bisexuality | belligerent sexual tension | getting together | established couples | messy emotions | codependency | devotion
In general, I love female characters being treated like real complex people, and I love when couples keep their dynamic and their edges even after getting together! I tend to like my characters on the emotionally constipated or hiding-behind-humor end, who show their feelings in the way they act, rather than via gushing declarations of love and devotion.
NSFW Likes
all kinds of vibes for sex (casual, romantic/emotional, passionate/enthusiastic, comfort sex, hatesex) | realistic/imperfect sex | frottage | hand jobs | piv | oral | 69ing | deepthroating | anal | pegging | rimming | edging | over stimulation | breath play | temperature/wax play | restraint | impact play | cock warming | waking someone up with sex | voyeurism | exhibitionism | public/semi-public sex | clothed/semi-clothed sex | having to be quiet | FFM and FMM threesomes | blood kink | menstrual kink | lactation kink | pregnant sex
Common dnws that I don't mind
infidelity | age or power gaps | underage (16/17yo) | incest/pseudo-incest | dubious consent* | monsterfucking/shapeshifter bestiality | female characters receiving anal | (m)pregnancy | parenthood | omegaverse (more details)
*e.g. drunk/high sex, sex pollen/Something Made Them Do It, coercion/manipulation/grooming, identity issues, somnophilia not discussed beforehand, etc
====DNWS====
General DNWs
whump/sickfic | major character death | modern/no powers AUs | D/s or slavery AUs | unrequested identity headcanons or changes to character race/sex/body type | soapboxing of real-world issues | tradwife vibes
NSFW DNWs
rape/non-con | guro/vore/snuff | underage <16yo | ageplay/age regression | daddy/mommy kink | DDlg | gender-specific degrading dirty talk / 'mean man' vibes | inflation/bulging | cervix fucking | unrealistically large dicks | stuffing/feeding | piss/scat/vomit | squirting | spitting | structured BDSM*
* pre-arranged safewords, traffic light systems, formalised roles/titles, etc. Characters doing bdsm type play organically/stumbling into a dynamic as they go is fine, I just don't want it to look like they've read a modern bdsm manual if they're not in the modern real world.
Note that anything listed as a DNW here may be superseded by an explicit request for it in a particular exchange! There are some things I like only in very specific contexts.