General exchange Dear Creator letter
May. 10th, 2024 10:02 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
jammerificHello! Thank you for considering creating something for me. Hopefully this will help you be confident in making something I'd enjoy.
I also have some fandom-specific thoughts for the following:
Grishaverse
The Locked Tomb
Legend of Zelda
====LIKES====
General Likes
canon compliance | canon divergence | worldbuilding | plot/intrigue | romance/smut | fluff/humor | friendships/banter (including in romantic pairings!) | competence | battle couples | time fuckery | unreliable narrators | competent/confident women | arranged/accidental/fake marriage | mutual pining | cliche tropes | friends to lovers | enemies to lovers | bisexuality | belligerent sexual tension | getting together | established couples | messy emotions | codependency | devotion
In general, I love female characters being treated like real complex people, and I love when couples keep their dynamic and their edges even after getting together! I tend to like my characters on the emotionally constipated or hiding-behind-humor end, who show their feelings in the way they act, rather than via gushing declarations of love
NSFW Likes
all kinds of vibes for sex (casual, romantic/emotional, passionate/enthusiastic, comfort sex, hatesex) | realistic/imperfect sex | frottage | hand jobs | piv | oral | 69ing | deepthroating | anal | pegging | rimming | edging | over stimulation | breath play | temperature/wax play | restraint | impact play | cock warming | somno/waking someone up with sex | voyeurism | exhibitionism | public/semi-public sex | clothed/semi-clothed sex | having to be quiet | FFM and FMM threesomes | blood kink | menstrual kink | averagely-sized or small dicks and tits
Common dnws that I don't mind
infidelity | age or power gaps | underage (16/17yo) | incest/pseudo-incest | monsterfucking/shapeshifter bestiality | female characters receiving anal | (m)pregnancy, pregnant sex, lactation kink | parenthood | omegaverse (more details) | dubious consent (e.g. drunk/high sex, sex pollen/Something Made Them Do It, coercion/manipulation/grooming, identity issues, somnophilia not discussed beforehand, etc)
====DNWS====
General DNWs
whump/sickfic | major character death | modern/no powers AUs | D/s or slavery AUs | unrequested identity headcanons or race/sex/body type changes | soapboxing of real-world issues | tradwife vibes/cottagecore | misogyny
NSFW DNWs
rape/non-con | guro/vore/snuff | underage <16yo | ageplay/regression | daddy kink/DDlg | misogynistic dirty talk or vibes | non-sexual bodily substances (piss, scat, vomit, spitting) | bulging, cervix fucking, 'it won't fit', painful sex due to size issues etc | structured BDSM*
*(pre-arranged safewords, traffic light systems, formalised roles/titles, etc. Characters doing bdsm type play organically/stumbling into a dynamic as they go is fine, I just don't want it to look like they've read a modern bdsm manual if they're not in the modern real world.)
Note that anything listed as a DNW here may be superseded by an explicit request for it in a particular exchange! There are some things I like only in very specific contexts.
I also have some fandom-specific thoughts for the following:
Grishaverse
The Locked Tomb
Legend of Zelda
====LIKES====
General Likes
canon compliance | canon divergence | worldbuilding | plot/intrigue | romance/smut | fluff/humor | friendships/banter (including in romantic pairings!) | competence | battle couples | time fuckery | unreliable narrators | competent/confident women | arranged/accidental/fake marriage | mutual pining | cliche tropes | friends to lovers | enemies to lovers | bisexuality | belligerent sexual tension | getting together | established couples | messy emotions | codependency | devotion
In general, I love female characters being treated like real complex people, and I love when couples keep their dynamic and their edges even after getting together! I tend to like my characters on the emotionally constipated or hiding-behind-humor end, who show their feelings in the way they act, rather than via gushing declarations of love
NSFW Likes
all kinds of vibes for sex (casual, romantic/emotional, passionate/enthusiastic, comfort sex, hatesex) | realistic/imperfect sex | frottage | hand jobs | piv | oral | 69ing | deepthroating | anal | pegging | rimming | edging | over stimulation | breath play | temperature/wax play | restraint | impact play | cock warming | somno/waking someone up with sex | voyeurism | exhibitionism | public/semi-public sex | clothed/semi-clothed sex | having to be quiet | FFM and FMM threesomes | blood kink | menstrual kink | averagely-sized or small dicks and tits
Common dnws that I don't mind
infidelity | age or power gaps | underage (16/17yo) | incest/pseudo-incest | monsterfucking/shapeshifter bestiality | female characters receiving anal | (m)pregnancy, pregnant sex, lactation kink | parenthood | omegaverse (more details) | dubious consent (e.g. drunk/high sex, sex pollen/Something Made Them Do It, coercion/manipulation/grooming, identity issues, somnophilia not discussed beforehand, etc)
====DNWS====
General DNWs
whump/sickfic | major character death | modern/no powers AUs | D/s or slavery AUs | unrequested identity headcanons or race/sex/body type changes | soapboxing of real-world issues | tradwife vibes/cottagecore | misogyny
NSFW DNWs
rape/non-con | guro/vore/snuff | underage <16yo | ageplay/regression | daddy kink/DDlg | misogynistic dirty talk or vibes | non-sexual bodily substances (piss, scat, vomit, spitting) | bulging, cervix fucking, 'it won't fit', painful sex due to size issues etc | structured BDSM*
*(pre-arranged safewords, traffic light systems, formalised roles/titles, etc. Characters doing bdsm type play organically/stumbling into a dynamic as they go is fine, I just don't want it to look like they've read a modern bdsm manual if they're not in the modern real world.)
Note that anything listed as a DNW here may be superseded by an explicit request for it in a particular exchange! There are some things I like only in very specific contexts.
